A relationship coach helps you identify and break the patterns keeping you stuck, so you can attract and maintain healthy love. Unlike therapy (which focuses on past wounds), coaching is future-focused and action-oriented. We work together to rewire your attachment style, build emotional availability, and give you practical tools for dating differently.

I'm a Certified Relationship Coach with 12 years in recovery programs, years of personal therapy, and training in Non-Violent Communication. But honestly? My biggest qualification is that I've lived this. I nearly married my father (emotionally unavailable engineer with narcissistic tendencies). I've been the anxious over-giver. I've ignored red flags. I've trauma-bonded. And I spent 2 years breaking those patterns. Now I help others do the same, faster and with less pain.

If you're willing to do the work? Absolutely. My clients report feeling less anxious, more confident, and attracting emotionally available partners within 3-6 months. One client is now engaged. Another saved her business partnership. But here's the thing: coaching works if you're ready to stop repeating patterns and start taking ownership. If you just want to vent about your exes, therapy might be better.

My programs are budget-friendly. Because my mission is to help as many achievers as possible. Think of it this way: How much have you spent on therapy, dating apps, bad dates, and relationships that didn't work? How much is another 5 years of the same pattern worth to you? Investment in yourself always pays the highest return.

Only if you're serious about change. If you've tried therapy, read the books, listened to the podcasts, and you're still stuck, you need a different approach. Coaching gives you frameworks, tools, and accountability that generic advice can't. My clients wish they'd started sooner. But if you're not ready to look at YOUR patterns (not just blame your exes), save your money.

Coaching is right for you if you're: tired of attracting emotionally unavailable people, ready to stop people-pleasing and set real boundaries, done with therapy that keeps you stuck in the past, willing to do uncomfortable inner work, and actually want a committed, healthy relationship (not just attention or validation). It's NOT right if you: just want to complain about your ex, aren't willing to examine your own patterns, or think everyone else is the problem.

Look for someone who: has actually done their own work (not just read about it), teaches Non-Violent Communication (most coaches don't), focuses on attachment styles and emotional availability (not just "mindset"), offers real tools (not just inspirational quotes), and has testimonials from people like you. I specialize in high-achievers who are successful everywhere except love and who are ready to change that.

Trust your gut. Does their story resonate? Do their values align with yours? Do they walk the talk? Red flags: coaches who promise you'll find love in 30 days, coaches who've never done their own healing work, coaches who focus only on "attracting" partners (not becoming emotionally available yourself). Green flags: transparency about their own journey, focus on YOUR patterns (not just dating tactics), frameworks you can actually use.

Not necessary! All my coaching is virtual (Zoom). What matters more than location is whether the coach understands YOUR specific challenges. I work with clients across North America, from Chicago to Houston to Iowa City. Geographic proximity matters way less than psychological alignment.

Book a free clarity call. We'll talk about where you're stuck, what patterns keep showing up, and whether BEAM is right for you. No pressure. No sleazy sales tactics. Just an honest conversation about what you need. Worst case? You get 30 minutes of free coaching. Best case? You start the journey to finally breaking free.