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Get the Relationship You Want Sooner.

Let us help you. InsidesMatch isn't just a relationship resource. We're a relationship compatibility experience that will help you get to the right relationship. Take our assessment to find out what behaviors you're compatible with and receive a free GPS that navigates you to a successful relationship. 

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What relationship do you want to work on today?

 We can help you with your romantic relationships, friendships, family dynamics, and at work.  

We measure compatibility through behaviors 

Greenie secure people have the most satisfying long-term relationships. Yellow will run into conflicts, and red are incompatible. You can move your attachment style to secure and work through your conflicts with InsidesMatch.

Secure people are not afraid to be vulnerable and show up consistently.

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Fearful Avoidants crave love and support but may keep their distance.

Preoccupied Anxious crave love and support but may keep their distance.

Dismissive Avoidant craves love and support but may keep their distance.

What behaviors are you compatible with, and which ones will cause conflicts in your relationship?

Find out in only 30 minutes what behaviors you are compatible with and which ones drive you away.

CEO made a turnaround and how she is helping people improve their success in relationships.

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Why We Started Insidesmatch


It has taken me almost a decade of therapy, recovery, hypnosis, and self-
discovery to connect the dots on why I attract and stay in unhealthy


No one source gave me all the answers. But my obsession moved me to a secure attachment style, and I want to help others get there too!


Dagmar Kusiak, CEO

We created an assessment focusing on 4 critical areas that impact

I went through a tough divorce and being a single mom is not easy. This
framework we have built has not only helped me see why I pick toxic
relationships, but also helped me improve my behaviors with my kids.

We all have stuff to work on and triggers that make and break relationships. It starts with understanding what your stuff is and digging into your past to


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Tonia Emery, Co-Founder & Psychologist

In 30 minutes or less, you'll see what's keeping you from a long-term relationship.

Improve your compatibility index.

Use GPS tools to navigate your relationships and keep your relationships strong and long lasting.




Purchase the InsidesMatch Subscription


Complete 4 assessments
(approximately 30 minutes)
and receive your personalized

reports right away


Receive a GPS to guide you to your healthy relationship and tools to keep you relationship strong.


Schedule a 30-minute

coaching call to make sure you are in the right track.


Receive an email within a year to re-test and become the change you want to see in your relationships.

What Sets InsidesMatch Apart?

We take pride in our personalized valid, and reliable assessment, pinpointing your compatibility issues and the tools that guarantee a happy and long-lasting relationship. Unlike other assessments, you will see the full landscape of everything it takes to have success in your relationship. We also have tools to help you keep you relationship going strong.


Compatibility Awareness Assessment Bundle


✓ InsidesMatch Assessment™

✓ Self-Guided Compatibility Plan

✓ 1 Hour Video Coaching session with psychologist

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✓ Complete the assessment in 30 min

✓ Discover your compatibility level

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Best Version of Yourself Series


✓ Compatibility Awareness Assessment Bundle Plus:

✓ 1 Assessment™ Re-test Per Year

✓ GPS to a successful relationship

✓ New monthly tools to support GPS

✓ 30 Minute Coaching to keep you on track

✓ 10% Discount on Dig Deeper Live Workshops 

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✓ Re-take assessment yearly to increase compatibility

✓ GPS and tools to navigate you to the relationship you want

$36/year ($3/month)

Dig Deeper 
Live Workshops


✓ Includes Relationsthip Plus:

✓ Our "Happy You, Happy Two" Workshop series provides tools to build relationship skills

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✓ Re-assess in 1 year to see progress

✓ Small Group Setting with professional facilitators using techniques to sucessful relationships



Gwen Brehm

The InsidesMatch Assessment is a fantastic tool for mental health professionals working with couples - much needed in our field

I took the assessment and realized a few things about myself that I needed to pay more attention to. After the assessment, I had a long discussion with my husband about the results, the history of my relationships, and the changes that have occurred for me over the years. We talked about our individual and couple strengths and even set goals to improve in some areas discovered in the assessment. This is a truly helpful tool for me.


Additionally, it would be a vital tool for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of their relationship issues and get practical ideas on improving—a fantastic tool for mental health professionals working with couples- much needed in our field.


Therapists encourage clients to take InsidesMatch Assessment and bring their report results to their sessions. On average, therapists complete their initial assessment of you in 4 sessions. With InsidesMatch Assessment, they can complete that assessment in 1 session. That saves you money on therapy and accelerates your progress.


  • What is the InsidesMatch Assessment™?
    It's an assessment that will help you become aware of your issues from past relationships in 10 minutes and let you know why you struggle to start a new relationship or make one last.
  • Can I retake the assessment?
    Yes. If you purchase the subscription you will have access to take the assessment again and track your progress.
  • What happens if didn’t receive an assessment in my inbox?
    Check spam and then Email
  • Can couples take the assessment?
    Yes. We recommend couples each take the assessment and share the results with each other. However, currently we don’t offer those results on the same report.
  • What does InsidesMatch™ Offer? Therapy? Training?
    InsidesMatch™ does not offer therapy. We recommend our clients attend therapy and recovery. Besides Assessment, Video Debrief, and Youtube Videos, we offer a guided and accelerate skills workshop. In the workshop you'll be able to start your journey to understanding and changing your behaviors.

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