Consistent behavior is a critical component of every successful long-term relationship. Consistency means maintaining a regular and healthy pattern of behavior. There are consistent unacceptable behaviors like avoiding conflicts, avoiding emotional intimacy, or being a victim. You want to watch for those behaviors when dating, but here I'm talking about how to be a consistent partner who exhibits dependability and predictability. These qualities can carry a relationship beyond the honeymoon phase and lead to long-term secure partnerships. Consistent behavior is a critical component of every successful long-term relationship. This is important to feel safe to be vulnerable and authentic to yourself in the relationship.
6 WAYS TO BE CONSISTENT
Your behaviors are consistent with your values. If growing is a value of yours, then it would make sense to see you putting forth work to grow and change,
Your actions speak, and your words match. When you say you will do something, you do it and don't need reminders. This makes you trustworthy and dependable.
Stay connected. You and your partner find ways to connect even when you are not together.
Consistently show care by compromising on each other's needs. You find a balance between your needs and your partner's needs.
Say what you mean, mean what you say, but don't say it meanly. You both are clear on the type of relationship (friendship, moving towards a committed relationship, etc.) and face conflicts in. the most loving way you know how without running away—no more walking on eggshells.
Consistently decisive. We all change our minds sometimes. Changing our minds too much creates distrust and an unhealthy dynamic between you and your partner. Learn to trust your instincts in making decisions; remember, you won't make everyone happy.